Life is like riding a bicycle

Life is like riding a bicycle, to keep your balance you must keep moving.

(Albert Einstein)

You're so right mr Einstein. Life is such an amazing ride, and when we get off track, we cant stop, just figure  out another way and continue on our journey. Here are 10 ways that life is like riding a bicycle.

1. You need balance. If you lean too far to one side, you'll fall off. Regarding character traits, Maimonides writes " that a person should follow the golden 'path of the middle' and not leantowards one extreme or the other." It's important to always pay attention to where you're leaning !

     2.  Get back up again ! It's not falling down that determines your worth ; it's whether or not you get back up.

     3.  In the beginning you stumble, but with more experience you can really get far! Life is a series of learning from your mistakes. That's how you learned to walk and talk. And it's how you grow in life.

     4.  If you look at the ground instead of looking up ahead, you'll lose your balance and crash. In life, it's easy to live in your own little bubble, consumed with yourself. You not only disconnect from the world, you ultimately disconnect from yourself. Look up and outside yourself. Connect to the world outside of you. Only then can you flourish.

    5.  When the road throws you a curve, go with it ! When a turn is coming up, you lean with the curve. You dont fight it and go other way. Life sometimes throws you curves too, and in order to remain on top, you need to go with the flow. If a tragedy happens, accept its pain and go with God's larger plan which is for the ultimate goal !

    6.  A bike helps you get to where you need to go. Some people ride bikes just for the thrill of it. And some people believe that life just for the thrills. They dont realize they have places to get to. A bike is a tool - it's not the end goal. You're supposed to get to someplace with your life. Be clear on your destination and if you use it well, you can really get far !

    7.  A bike doesnt move on its own. Life and bicycles need people to operate them. Without a person behind the handlebar, guiding and making choices, it just wont go anywhere !

    8.  When you get really good, you can do wheelies! After you've been riding a bike for so long, you can start doing the special stuff. Life is like that also. Once you get the hang of who you are and where you're going, you can pop some big miracles too!

    9.  Bicycling gives you muscles. Life toughens you up, especially if you ride up hills. Riding down a hill may be fun and exciting, but only riding up the hill strengthens your muscles.

    10.  You cant do it forever. Some people wish they could live forever. Some people believe it. But just like riding a bike, your body eventually wears out, and you need to go home. The important thing is that you enjoy the ride, and you get to where you need to go! And remember along the way to be grateful for every big or little thing that comes your way too!        

So cycle readers !! Keep on moving ! =)

     

Love is like flying a kite

Love is like flying a kite

Randomly i've over-recall this proverb or saying. Love is like flying a kite. And i also realized that i've blog-ed about this in my previous wretch blog years back then. Well, yet until today i still agree with this tho i wish that things could get easier. 

Love is like flying a kite. There are times when you need to learn how to release the string and pull back with the right pressure. Sometimes it seems the more you try to hold on to someone the more you will be losing them. There are times when you have to learn to let go the string and pull it back with the right memento. At times when you pull too hard, the string will be too taut. BUT when you pull too soft, the kite will falls.

Understandable that the kite-flyer pulls too hard because of they want it to be his. They dont want the kite to fly away far from him. But it aint work that way. The harder he pull, the more taut it will be and the more chances of the string will snap and he kite will fly away.

When you have this emotional crisis, often you feel so tiny and feel like being unwanted by your partner. What you really need to do is applying the concept of flying a kite by pulling the string at the right memento at the right time. How to know when is the right memento and when is not? This one i really got no idea. lol

Anyhow, advisable that everybody should try flying a kite, literally.lol. I've tried once in my entire life,lol, thanks to my Him. The feeling when you're holding the string, you really really afraid that any moment the string will just 'boop' and snap, and you will never get your kite back. Then, you will have to worry as well will the string attached or twine to other kite's string. And last but not least, 'the right memento'. This is the most important aspect in flying a kite.

When you're in that position holding the string, you need to concern a lot of things. This is how i look at flying a kite. It's not physically tight, but mentally tight. =)

Learn how to fly a kite properly readers. Cheers. =)

Be Yourself

There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout : "This is me damn it! I look the way i look, think the way i think, feel the way i feel, love the way i love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me...or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because i dont fit your idea of who i should be and dont try to change me to fit your mold. If i need to change, i alone will make that decision."   When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad, you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.     --- Stacey Charter (2000)

Fakers. I've always hated fakers, especially those drama queens. How do i define 'drama queen'? Very simple. For me, drama queens are those who keep pretending infront of people, living as she is acting everyday infront of her 'audiences'. In other words, it's actually a girl who boo hoo's and ba ha's about all the shit in her life that's going on claiming 'too much drama' but in reality brings it all on herself.

A drama queen can act as she was so innocent and yet she was the one who bring it all up. Dumb guys might fall for these drama queens but not for ladies, we know she was the one who behind all these and is responsible for every consequences she's having now. A drama queen can pretended nothing had happened infront of you eventhough she is actually having affair with your beloved. Dumb ladies will thought she's a good friend, nice and friendly, and you let yourself unaware of a wolf. A wolf that actually starts chewing your heart. Guys: "if a girl willing to share, WHY NOT?". Right?

Just dont understand why cant they be themselves. Being an adult but never really know what they should do and what they shouldnt. I guess they've watched too much of dramas and series. Well, everyday is a drama day for them. lol. Wondering what if one day "CUT!", what's left with them is only themselves and a title called "annoying bitch". Could it be this way? lol

Anyway, is just a simple post about drama queen. 

Be Yourself, Bitches!

Cheers readers, sorry for being impolite. =)

I had a dream

I had a dream

Well technically, i've always have this dream. Dream not as in succession of images, thoughts, or emotions passingthrough the mind during sleep, but the most desirable thing that i've ever wanted. Can i exaggerate by saying " i've wanted this my whole life !" " i've been craving for this for years!" or "this is my biggest wish ever!" ? lol. Well, this is actually something that i dream of having.

Readers must be wondering what i'm craving for , and this is it - couple photography. Take note that what i'm saying is just couple photos, not marriage photos. What's the different? Couples who are still 'newbies' much more in passion compared to couples who have been together for a long long time. This is some passionate that i wish to keep. People often said 'long term relationship have no more passion but comfort'. Almost every relationship passion can fade away. Leaving relationships lacking and opening up new doors for many new problems.

This is something that i do not wish to see it happening. I love seeing me and my beloved one happy, blissful and passionate. The look, the smile and every actions that represent romance, passionate feeling of attraction is what i've wanted to keep. These photos will act as an refreshment and awakening the forgotten love. It's not that we dont love anymore, is the sublimation of love that we thought that the love and passion that once we had were gone.

Maybe years later when i look back those photos, i still can smirk and say " How much we love each others..." and yet we still.

We love music

We love cars

We love snooker & pool

We love travel

We love watching football

We love happiness and blissfulness

Well, all just some photos i refer from other sources. I wish having one of those one day. lol. It's just a dream of mine. =)

Stay lovely and blissful couples =) Cheers readers.

I'm Grateful of Having You

I'm grateful

Many of the simple things in life can be reasons for being grateful. these are often things that we tend to take for granted - our health, family, friends, our livelihood - until they are brought to our attention or taken away. Remembering to be grateful daily for one's health, family, friends, a job during recession, having a roof over one's head and food on the table is a good way to start living with gratitude. As each year ends and a new one begins we have the opportunity to stop and reflect on the current state of our lives and remember to be grateful. Each new day can give us the chance to start anew and is an excellent time to start keeping a gratitude journal, as a written reminder of for all that you have to be grateful.

Take a few moment as you read through this, think about what are grateful for everyday. And i think of you.

Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it. (William Arthur Ward) What am i grateful of today? That is you. I'm grateful of having you in my life, and i appreciate you for who you are. Is not easy to have someone who have so much in common and yet most important is someone who you love that loves you too. Most relationships are not perfect and there will always be conflict because different people have different needs and want.

I found these. Many relationships do not work because the people are not compatible. Many people get together with the opposite sex because of physical looks alone. This is great in the beginning, but if there is nothing more than physical attraction the relationship is likely doomed. It is better to get to know someone on a personal level before you get serious with them. This will ensure that neither one of you gets hurt, and will also increase your chances of a long term relationship thriving. Whenever you meet someone new it is important to establish common interests. One of the things that makes couples last longer is that they have a wide variety of activities that they enjoy doing together. If a couple really does like to spend time together, then your chances of success improve dramatically. Seek out things that both of you can do together.

When it comes to communication, it is something that many couples start out doing well and then over time it fades. This is arguably the most important aspect of any relationship, so you have to make sure you constantly communicate with your partner.


The last thing couples do that makes their relationships end is that they do not keep things fresh. They become too comfortable with the other person, and they do not put in any effort to keep things new and exciting. This is a key part of maintaining a long term relationship. Think about how you acted in the beginning when things were fresh. You probably went above and beyond to make the other person happy. This is important to do when you are trying to keep a long term relationship going. There are other reasons why marriages and long term relationships fail, but most of the time they lead back to one of these. If you're relationship has been struggling then you need to either end it or take it upon yourself to make it better. Have a serious conversation with your partner, and decide whether or not the relationship is worth maintaining. If not, don't let it drag out forever. 

Well, I'm grateful of still being together with you and the one i love so much, loves me so much too. <3

Night readers. =)

Band Performing 3 Jan 2012

One of the video

We are performing Ding Dang's 'Wo Shi Yi Zhi Xiao Xiao Niao' 

(Small Small Bird) =)

Finally is the day we perform in cafe. Although is a small cafe, unlike Station One or any other famous cafe, but i was freaking excited. Performed around 10 songs. Thanks for my bay arranged this performance for me. Thanks my friend Roxz who performing guitar for us too.

Two days after that i went pub singing with my colleagues. The sense of accomplishment made me excited and happy. I able to grab the attention of group of strangers to sing along with me, they screamed and clap during ending. Most probably the effect of alcohol but i'm still proud to say this is what i've wanted. The feeling of making people happy and enjoy. Tho i cant speak well during performance in cafe, but i willing to learn. Thanks for the chances given, thank you cafe boss. 

A very good and unforgetable memory my Bay arranged for me. Thanks. Thanks for everything. I'm glad that we have quite a number of common interest. =) Before i forget, thanks too for friends who came support.

Cheers readers. =) 

Ps: Sorry for the bad quality recording =)

The Red Hair Girl

I want my Red Hair back.

He wants my long hair back.

Now,

My hair is not Red enough.

My hair is not long enough.

But i'm glad that my hair is naturally good. lol. Not wanted to boost myself, but my hair is naturally straight. Save my pocket for paying on rebonding - straightening. My hair is not thick neither do curl. My hair very soft and the best part is, i did colouring once per two to three months and my hair still in not-bad condition. That's why even my relatives complaint that i always in RED.  *laugh* Anyway, it's been 22 years i've owned a long hair. Technically, i never cut my hair short. Yes, SHORT as in now! Anyway, it's all because of encouragement from friends and i also felt it's time to give it a try. Well, i had a wonderful outcome right? Not bad for a short-hair me i guess. =)


Well, it's time to find my Red-hair back. I mean REAL red. Since i've did some photoshooting session for this short-hair, it's time to have a long hair back ! Let's go for that again!


Cheers readers. =)

Bye 2011 Welcoming 2012

Happy New Year 2012 everyone !

Well, a brand new year has come. People starting to post status, updating blogs for things that they've wanted or wish for the brand new year. But being realistically, i only wish for not repeating the mistakes that i've done for my past, grown up and learn. People wish for luxury cars, expensive phones and accessories. I would have wish for one too, understandable. But instead, i will wish that i could earn more for it.

2011 for me, is neither a bad year or a good year. But what i can say about it is that is ended pretty well. For those who knows me, December 28 is my birthday, and i had a great time with my Bay. Thanks for the surprise that he has arranged for me, thanks for my friends for celebrating with me as well. I had a fantastic birthday week as the ending for 2011. On the other hand, i've achieved a not bad sales result and i able to grab the USD incentive my company giving. =) What a great ending for 2011.

Where else for 2012, a great start as well. My car, finally repaired the audio system, engine oil and polished. Done! Thanks to my beloved him. =) Two more days later, i'll be going to perform in cafe. Yes, you heard me, band PERFORMING! Thanks to my beloved too. He arranged and gave me a wonderful moment. I'm so grateful surrounded by his love. Love him so much.

The only commiserate is that one of our little turtle passed away. The RES (Red Eyed-Slider). I guess it will be a release for him as he was so sick until dont have appetite. The few hours before he went heaven, he dont even have the energy to move himself. Just left few hour to 2012 and he unable to make it. Rest in peace little one. =(

Anyhow, life still goes on. Once again. Cheers. =)

Happy New Year 2012 everyone!