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Maybe some of my readers will say

"OMG, Samir Nasri again!?"

Well, the answer is "yes, its him again!"

Now this is the news, Samir Nasri 'eyed' by Manchester United as Arsenal wait on contract. The French midfielder's current deal expires in 2012, but he has been offered vastly improved terms to sign a four-year extension at The Emirates. Nasri is said to be happy with the salary package he has been promised, but concerned about whether Arsenal will have the ability to challenge for trophies in the next few seasons.

If he decides against signing the new deal, the Gunners will be forced to sell the 23-year-old this summer, rather than risk seeing him leave for nothing at the end of next season. So how? Seriously i would not know if Nasri leave, what will happen to Arsenal. My freind said, Nasri not as good as V. Persie, but he has his own importance, his role in the team.

Then, i found this, The Sunday Times reports that Nasri 'has left Arsenal in a worrying state of limbo by failing to sign a lucrative new contract with the club. With Cesc Fabregas a continued transfer target for Barcelona and Real Madrid, Arsenal face the prospect of a summer fending off interest in their two most productive outfield players.

'Both Manchester United and Chelsea are in the market for a midfield playmaker and have been alerted to the Nasri's potential availability. In Serie A, Internazionale have asked to be kept informed of developments with the France midfielder as they prepare improvements to their squad.'

Samir Nasri definitely a rising star, they said. For me, maybe i will agree with it since i still feel that Nasri is the best in Arsenal. But bias applied as i like him.lol. Anyway, hope for the good future for this star, since Barca, Manchester United and even to be said that Chelsea also interested on him.

Well, just a random post. Like i said, there definitely would be a reason why he has been chosen to be the nominee of Player Of The Year and being 'eyed-on' right? lol

Wants and Needs

Needs VS Wants. As usual Wants win.

A friends told me that a way to let Needs win is to have contentment. But who will satisfied with what they having. "Ask For More" Janet's song i said.

An equation or should i say 'self-made theory' of mine for the satisfaction level and wants.:-

When satisfaction hits 2, wants go for 3. There are none fixed optimum level of satisfactory, there will only be overtaking by wants when each optimum satisfaction level reached. Wants will always be in front of the achieved optimum satisfactory level, and a higher optimum satisfactory level born.

In short, wants is always > satisfaction. lol. Acting as i am so clever creating equation without proper research. lol

Anyway, there are things in life that we really want, and there are things in life that we really need. Maryam Toson just sent us this creative which explores this very idea. She titles the refreshingly honest series, "Wants/Needs Project.". Oh, by the way, Maryam Toson is a photographer and poet. Talented and hardworking, and also young.

"The main purpose of it, was to question people, and yourself, as to what is it that you really WANT and that you really NEED," says Toson. "Is it the same? Is it different? Do they relate? Or do they have nothing to do with each other. Most people confuse the things they want as something they need.", she added. She is shooting 'I WANT, I NEED' in different parts of the word like Egypt and the draw comparisions and spark dialogue around the similarities and differences.

So, i am not going to comment much since i guess everybody knows what is wants and what is needs. By the way, is a random post. And a big compliments to Maryam Toson and her works. Ending of this post i share some of her works. Nice.

The Wants/Needs project.

Football fans?

Samir Nasri from Arsenal

My favorite player

Over-obsessed i would said that.lol

Well this is just a random post. Yesterday watched Arsenal vs Bolton with him and friends of course. Out of sudden recall one of my 'big brother' from Ipoh. He is an Indian fellow and obviously i am not a racist.lol. We have been good friends and he treated me as if i am his sister and take care of me whenever i'm in his 'area', his working place, Barroom.lol. But anyway, what i wanted to say is, he taught me something regarding Football when once we were at mamak stall watching football match. 

He said :" everyone could have simply claimed themselves as a football fans, fans of this club fans of that. But for me, if you know very few information, background, past performances or anything regarding the team that you have claimed yourself to be a fans of, you are just bullshit."

He added :" There is no right or wrong on loving or being loyalty to any team preferable, but that is just purely LIKE, not till the stage of being a FANS. A pure fans."

Seems like he take football as a very serious matter. But definitely not until the stage of lost control of emotions when his favorite team lose.*tsk tsk* I cannot recall the actual team that he is a fans of. But definitely he showed us how his passion and loves towards that team. He knows everything regarding the team. Even background of the player, i mean each players. All those historical stuffs of the team which i dont even know what he is talking about.lol.

Anyhow, the point is not how much he knows about the team. Is the difference of a real fans and just purely blindly like. Honestly, i do agreed with him. I am never a fans of any players or teams. But i do like Samir Nasri from Arsenal because of his skill, hmm, and added a bit obsession by his outlook. *laugh* But seriously i do impressed by the skill he bringing up the ball to the goal, passes through all opponents' defenders. Seems such an easy job for him.lol

Anyhow, there would be a reason why he has been chosen to be the nominee of Player Of The Year lately right?

Now that is what i was talking about

Now this is what i told him and made him laugh

One of the Panasonic battery advertisement

Looks familiar the Mr. Gorilla? Yes, everybody knows the person who has this signature dress style and hairstyle and always is an African, especially African American actor and movie star called "Mr. T". This is how he looks like.

Now this is what i have told my Bay, seriously this advertisement is racist. Sorry to say that, but we able to found this advertisement in Malaysia, billboard especially. Dont the one who approved this advertisement realized that there are Africans in our country? What does this mean? This is equivalent to dressing up Siti Nurhaliza to look like a Gorilla, how would you feel? Offended right? So i guess the same goes to them, Africans. 

Africans are not immigrant workers who come here, they have their own national pride just like us "Malaysia Boleh" pride. Me as a Malaysian felt terribly sorry for Africans whoever saw this advertisement. I guess Malaysian terribly need mutual respect in some sense to other races.

Anyhow, i believe there are still many other racist advertisement issues. Found some interesting articles, but unable to link it. So i just share a link of some interesting tittles: Result from Google search

Anyway, this is what i have been wanted to post but always forgotten. No specify blames pointed at any party. Still, just a random post.

Chris Medina - What Are Words

2011 American Idol castoff Chris Medina

The guy who touched everyone's hearts and possibly made us shed a little tear with his heartbreaking love story about his girlfriend who currently suffers from brain injury due to a car accident.

Chris Medina - What Are Words

Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
Anytime you whisper my name, you'll see
How every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most

What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we're gone

And I know an angel was sent
just for me
And I know I'm meant to be where I am
And I'm gonna be
Standing right beside her tonight
And I'm gonna be by your side
I would never leave when she needs me most

What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, they never go away
They live on, even when we're gone

Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
And I'm gonna be here forever more
Every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most

I'm forever keeping my angel close

The Story Behind :

Chris Medina fell in love with Juliana the first moment he saw her and the two became engaged in the coffee shop she worked in 2007. They had planned to wed two years after getting engaged, but shortly before they could walk down the aisle, Juliana suffered a brain injury in a tragic car accident. On the exact day the were supposed to get married, he shared a song he wrote for his ladylove on Facebook. His heartfelt lyrics.

" I am giving all i have got to give

To pull you through

To set you free

More than the vow

Through thick and thin

I am living it

In your darkest hour i will be your light "

What are words if you really dont mean them when you say it? What are words if they are only for good times? I like this two sentences in the song " What Are Words". Meaningful. Understandable promises and compliances made during sweet times of couples. But what is the meaning of those words when you dont even fulfilling them? What is those words mean when they only for the sweetener of times. I heard before this quotation from guys, "promises are made to be broken". Well what i can say is, promises are not meant for broken. Promises are debt unpaid. There is a price to pay. So whenever you have made promises and words, seriously you are reliable for it then. 

Dont break the heart of your loves one. They are the one that you shouldnt be selfish with. Nowadays who will be able to do that? He is definitely one in a million. Promises are love. They never go away, they live on even when we are gone. Chris's selfless love to Juliana. They made me believed in love, again. True love does exist in this world!

All the best for them.

Stage

A stage is the world of performers 

Is performers' everything

Is where they earn money, is where they live

Yesterday being set up by my friends, being called up stage to perform a song during a singing competition organized by a temple here in Kampar. Tonight the official anniversary dinner of the temple, i ran away. Although it was just for the ending of the show, it was just for fun, i still feel shame shame. Although i got very good respond from down stage, my friends, my god daddy and brothers, although everyone was having fun, but still i dont deserve to stand there. For me, a stage is a very serious place, you have to be qualified to stand there and perform or being a mc. Because everyone is looking at you and there is no second take, no mistake is permitted. 

Oh, anyway, thank you dear god brother *lol* standing beside accompany me, in fact he is the one who got me involved. Thank you mc duet with me, although people said he actually was making noise pollution instead of duet. Thank you my Bay and friends, gang of Team Orion standing down there giving support with a lot of claps, whistle and screaming, although i still havent finished the song. *lol* Thank you for those audiences, auntie uncle pause there standing there listen when i have started to sing, although it was the ending song for the day and they were on their way to leave, thank you for holding back your steps for me. *lol* Thank you for some compliments from elders, although i know it was a good deed, for being kind. *smile*

Anyway, is a good experience. I totally forgotten when is the last time i standing on a stage for any purposes. The one that i able to remember i guess is when i was in secondary school, my daddy get me involved in his school's open singing competition out of no where. Got a consolation prize only. *lol* And it's like ages. Then reminds me of something. Something called "stage fright".

It's an anxiety, fear or phobia for those people who need to perform in front of an audience. I used to be very nervous and heart beats extremely fast, sometimes even feel hard to breathe when standing on stage facing faces that i dont even know single of it. But i guess now i am ok. At least yesterday didnt nervous didnt panic, but just feeling kind of shame.*lol* Anyway, stage fright is something everyone should try to avoid or overcome, seriously imagine if you have a very serious fright, how are you going for interview or so? I guess the most important is to boost up confidence. 

Boosting up confidence is good individually, but not overdoing it like some other person. Over-confidence caused a lot of issues. Have some confidence on yourself by knowing where is the limit is the best.

Have a nice day everyone. :-)

Stalker

I would like to Thank You for visiting my blog

But not until posting my link on other website

I would like to Thank You for reading my blog

But not until asking people whether they know me or not

I am glad that this is not my diary telling people what i have done and where i went or what

I am glad that i guess not much personal information revealed in the blog

Anyway, Thank You for viewing

But can you just drop by and then walk away quietly?

Thank You

Kimuchi or Kimchi?

Kimchi or Kimuchi?

Forget the chicken chop that he is eating, taken accidently

Photo taken yesterday when me and him still having trip at Genting and KL. Here am i, at First World eating this Kimchi or Kimuchi, i dont know. Basically was written there Kimuchi. Then i started to wondering, arent they called it Kimchi?

First of all, Kimuchi is from Japan where as Kimchi is from Korean. I would say that Korean Kimchi is the original one. Kimchi is not just a traditional food that only Koreans eat, but it is known worldwide for being healthy food. Kimchi can be found almost everywhere, even in Malaysisa, not just in China or Japan. People from western countries are also enjoying this spicy pickled dish. But some people said that among all the foriegn countries that enjoy kimchi, Japanese people show the most liking for it, as they call it Kimuchi. What is the difference between Kimchi and Kimuchi? I got no idea. For short, some people said Kimchi is more spicy and delicious that Kimuchi. Well i said it depends individually.

I have found out from the article stated that Korean fermented food, the Kimchi is named one of the top five healthiest foods in the world by Health magazine. Quite surprising because i have none information about this food Kimchi except knowing that it is Korean's traditional food. Accordingly, Kimchi has health benefits like lowered cholesterol, improved digestion, essential vitamins and minerals and also live probiotics. Well i could only said "wow"!

So here i am sharing the article link, have a look and then you know : Kimchi - healthy food

Anyway, another random post. Ending with a random photo.

Our footsteps in Genting for the 3rd time this semester. *smile*

What is this?

Sorry for kind of blur the photo

ASTRO BOY engine oil

Bay took another photo of ULTRAMAN engine oil

lol

Went ACE hardware shop at IOI mall Puchong with him and another friend. We found this. And we all were laughing. Wondering, what brand is this? Technically, both the Astro Boy and Ultraman engine oil were from Japan. But, how reliable will it be? Sorry for being so nasty, but how does the Ultraman related to engine? Is it means that our car can fly after using it?

I found some information on the Astro Boy engine oil and it cooperates with other company as well. "Camera Car", those who used it for movie purposes. And they even show their contract as prove and those commercial advantages, of course.

But..the another one, Ultraman engine oil. Dont forget, Ultraman got weakness too. He only can physically exist on Earth for approximately three to five minutes of Earth time. At the one minute mark, his color timer will starts to blink. So that means, this engine oil will be perform good around three to five minutes after it pour into the engine like the Ultraman. Is it? lol *laugh*

Anyway, still just a random post. Last, found this on internet. Hello Kitty engine oil. This is definitely for those Hello Kitty themed K-car user to use !

Kelisa Club

10 KelisaS

From Gino, Licca outlook modifying Kelisa

Till inferior modifying Kelisa and also Turbo YRV engine

And not forget my Bay's Hippo Gino, as what i always called it. lol

8th April 2011. Officially Kelisa Club forum members at Kampar and Ipoh gathering at Old Town Gunung Rapat. My Bay bring me along. And i was able to see different kind of modifying cars. I am so impressed with their effort and of course the money they have put in to their cars. Technically i am still a student, definitely financial will be a barrier for me to do anything to my car. Unlike them, changing YRV turbo engine. There is a doctor among them.The "wow" moment when he opened his boot. We were looking at each other and laughing. Why? Because we have underestimated the car with its stock outlook.

Dont underestimate this little engine. There are people using this engine in Kelisa and reached 160kmph within 16 seconds. lol. I dont know this is bullshit or not, but it is more than enough when you try to imagine the speed of it. Anyhow, there is only one thing you needed when you are modifying your car. Passion. Again i am saying this, i am damn impressed with their passion. Seems passion could help them pass through any barriers. Nothing can stop you when you have the passion. lol.

Yes, people said " i wanted to modify my car". But, to which direction? You aint gonna able to have a well-modified car if you just do it as you like. I mean, simply because you like any accessories then you just mix and match anything, plug anything on your car. In the end, your car will become Rojak. lol. Mixed up. Conclusion, messy.

I wish to modify my car more grand, more towards VIP. But not over doing it, of course. I like black and white color in my car, and also accessories with diamonds, that is why i love D.A.D and junction produce products. And that is why i said "more towards VIP style". But again, not over doing it. What do i mean overdoing it? This is it..

Obviously i am not gonna lower my car till this level and also i wont fixing those rims! It is way too extreme VIP for me.

This is more simple version of VIP style of Kelisa, Daihatsu Mira L700.

This is the feeling i like. Clean and clear inside the car, leather in black color, a little bit of D.A.D or VIP style accessories, a little bit of LED lights and also HID or white lights. The most important is, the whole concept is surrounding black and white color. Which basically both my favorite colors. Talking about color, i wish my car could be white or red color, like he always said, my car will look even sporty if is in red color. *sigh* If only i got the approval to change the color.

Here is a simple announcement. The born of another team of cars modifying members in Kampar. ORion, we finally decided on this name with 10 active members. And my previous team, Slay3rz Inc. will still remain, with me and him, it's like something that make me and him get closer. It is a bond. We think of wanting to create a team of cars and also we think of it and discussed, came out with the name. Without Slay3rz Inc. there will be no us, can we said that? lol.

Anyway, just a random post on modifying cars. There is a funny part on the Kelisa Club members gathering.

One of the half cut Licca

The owner has already appointment for new paint this Sunday. All of us, included other members' girlfriend involving in this "art", we called it. *laugh* Feel pity for the car, anyway, sorry for drawing on your car, but, it is fun and funny ! lol. Anyway, you gonna get a new paint soon, no worries!

Street patrolling till 4am. Quite fun. I wish to have this experience with my car. But, he said HARD ! where to find my type of Honda City, some more modified. But, this is definitely a nice experience. I cant get a group of members with same type of modified cars, but i wish for the substitute, members without same cars also accepted ! *smile*

Anyhow, keep up the good work guys. And is nice to meeting you all. 

Family, my loves one

Dumpling.
Ching Ming Festival is around the corner.

Actually i dont even know which day is the actual day.But i guess lately everyone will be rushing back hometown for this Festival to pay their respects for their ancestors.

Anyhow, the point is we will be seeing a lot of dumplings lately.


Normally , Chinese, especially Buddha, practices ancestor worship because they are driven by filial piety to care for the souls of their departed loves one. It is common to see families partaking of food served as offerings to the departed. And our family is among of the commons.

Why i pointed specifically on dumpling? Because i love dumplings made by my mom. Normally it will be tasting nice ! And will gives me the "aww" moment as well. But sometimes will happens some taste out of expectation. *laugh* And yet, i still impressed with my mom, she so expert in doing dumplings. I tried before and there was i keep screaming "OMG", "why like this" and much more.lol

This year, mom gave few dumplings for me to bring back in Kampar, and she gave some for my Bay too. Jealous sial, i, myself have to took dumpling myself, she didnt even ask me want to take or not. But my he, has my mom to offer him the dumplings volunteerly. *not fair-hng*

Anyway, it is a food, traditional Chinese food. Which appears only during any festivals, like Ching Ming or the dragon boat festival. For me, these all links to family. What will a dumpling means to you when you just alone and bought it at the market? You might have just feel "it is just a food." But this is not the original meaning of the food. Some said dumpling is about a team, a group.

Anyhow, i wanted a happy family. I guess everybody does. But i guess my wish and hope will be much stronger. Just few person will understand this. Ching Ming, me and Bay went back hometown like any other Chinese from other places too. That day, my daddy wake me up to my grandma's "banglo",lol, as what my father called it. Relatives all was talking, chit-chatting while doing prayers.

Then i saw 2003 March 18. Grandma passed away for so many years, and it was just "aww, time flashes!". I still remember way back when grandma was sick, she sitting on the chair and look at me, offering me half of her biscuit in hand and wanted me to sit beside her, sharing the same chair with her. There was her, so thin and with Alzheimer's disease.

Just wanted to tell everyone, appreciate your loves one when you still can. Who will know what will be happening next. Many things are unpredictable. Dont take things granted or else you will oversee the love that actually was there for so long. Never keep the word when you have the chances to say it out. Say i love you to the person that you love loudly. Let them know, let them take note instead of take things for granted.

My home sweet home

My Living Room with daddy working table

The 50' full HD tv daddy just bought *yeay* 

Second living room with newly custom-made wall cabinet and workout machines

Third living room upstairs with obvious aircon paip that havent fix up any aircon there.lol

And finally the corner of mommy's work place !

Let my parents's room, my room, my sister's room, guest room or store room, or whatever room in my house be confidential. *lol* Anyhow, this is still my home sweet home. Forever wishes it to be sweet always, sincerely. The most enjoyable part of my house is the direction of it. My house faces West. What does it means? It means this !

The view infront of my house, sunset !

 The view behind of my house, basically thru me and my sister's room windows, Sunrise !
*although captured abit late, not so early wake up,lol*

Maybe people will be wondering why is it looks like lake or water all over behind my house. Honestly, it was paddy field. Infront and back of my house has some small paddy field. No other building blocking the air, for now. When you entering the guard house, you will see only one straight road and there are only 20 houses inside. So whenever talking about my house, i will said that i am living in paddy field kampung. And nothing to be ashame of not being a city girl. Yes, i am just a village girl, so what? *laugh*

Just a random post. Happy Ching Ming Festival everyone. Wait, it sounds weird to wishes people happy for visiting departed relatives' grave. Anyway, i mean, enjoy the reunion moments with your family and relatives.

Enjoy ! ;-)

Hemodialysis

Hemodialysis

What do you know about this?

I guess many people do not really understand Hemodialysis. Not that i want to claim anything , but i do heard people coming around and said that Hemodialysis is where doctor cut out your kidney, washed it and put it back.*laugh* hmm... it is not so reasonable. Nothing much to blame. Not to say much, but at least i touched a little bit of knowledge in hemodialysis before.

It all started because of my mom operates a hemodialysis centre, as for my friends they know it.  I have worked there few years. I worked as clerk, writting letters, doing invoices, arranging the bills, call suppliers. I worked as office girl, went banks and post offices pay bills and went photocopy shops. I worked as maid, sweep the floor, mop the floor. I worked as nurse aide, preparing heparin, attached bloodline to machine and normal saline, recording patients blood flow, blood pressure, washed dialyzer. I worked as my mom's secretary, went seminars and talks with her, take down some notes about renal and dialysis. I even touches some of staff nurse's job, returning blood, writting letter upon patients to apply admission, and even know how to function the machine. Basically, i do what i can, i do what was assigned to me.lol. Oh, i even help designing the patient's log book. And the cover page i used the picture above.

Anyway, i started to think of all these because of the incidence of government wanted to close down one of the charity hemodialysis centre. I was shocked when i heard this news from my mom. Health Ministry had decided to issue a one-month notice to close down the Pertubuhan Hemodialysis Seberang Perai Selatan in Simpang Empat, Seberang Perai, Penang. The reason they are closing this centre is because of lacking monitoring by a nephrologist for the patients. This centre is doing a fine job saving the lives of the poor who cannot afford the expensive cost for dialysis which a patient of renal failure needs. As what they stated, each treatment costs from RM180 to RM200.

Patients needed the treatment three times per week, the optimum. How is it they are going to survive with each treatment costing RM180? Like my mom always said, end stage renal failure is a disease for rich people, if poor people get it, most probably they will only wait "the day" to come. My uncle passed away because of renal failure. And till now, sometimes i still can dream the same scene over and over again. There was my uncle in the hospital. I was walking upstairs and then my uncle lying on the bed and a bottle of small rocks in front of him. Ya, he gets the operation to get the small rocks out. Still feels weird i can dream of this over and over again.

Anyway, as what i was saying , the cost for the treatment. This is why my mom started to organize the centre. She went training and courses in hospital, and graduated as a trained nurse in dialysis. The Pertubuhan Hemodialysis Seberang Perai Selatan offering free treatment for poor patients, if government really shut down the centre, how many people will be suffering from that? Even my mom's centre, NGO, and yet she just charges RM60 with subsidies from government that she helped the patients to apply. And the remaining RM60, my mom will help them to find any charity organizations that willing to help them. As the result, some patients only need to pay RM10 per treatment, some RM30 and so, depends on which charity organizations.

Health cost in Malaysia have sky-rocketed and the lower income group patients has been badly affected. Having the charity organization, such as the one that government wanted to shut down, is a blessing for these people. The government should have just provide free medical support and centres and to support any charitable organization that does these noble jobs instead of slamming them with a closure order and a heavy fine in default. It is not easy to have charitable organizations like them helping to fund the poor people's health costs.

Anyhow, what we can do when government already decided? Protest? Yes, there are people protesting last Sunday. But i doubt that will be a success. Feel pity for those patients. Maybe the best is, since we are still living fine, please just take care of our kidney.

End Stage Renal Failure is not like a normal disease that can be cure. My mom always told me, once your kidney started to mulfunction, it will started to shrink till the very last stage. People with ESRF will have to depends on the treatment in order to survive. They cannot live without treatment. What i can say is, hypertension and diabetes is the main causes of getting steps closer to kidney failure. 

Everyone, take good care of your body. Dont regret when it is too late.

Unexpected

I am getting married soon !

Will this news shocked everyone?

I am officially a "mommy" now. I guess it's just happened naturally. LOL. Can i say that i am actually motherly enough ? lol. I like to pamper my kid, sayang him, hug him, kiss him. Babies are cute, dont they? Babies like being pampered as well, dont they? Anyhow, what's happened is happened. I am going to take the fact that i am a mother and i am going to get married soon enough. Is that a good news? I guess it should be. At least, finally settling down. Like i always admire my friends and relatives, so fast getting married and went into another stage of life. And you heard me right? I am getting married.

Anyhow, i am counting the days now. I guess i still cannot believe this is the fact that i am getting married. Finally, this day came and i am actually very excited and looking forward to the marriage more than the wedding. I know it sounds lame, but yes, i am very much excited becoming a wife more than a bride. Moreover, it is just a ceremony. For me, how we have to spend our following life following future is more important.

For the past, my life was very much in a roller coaster. Ups and downs. Happy and sad. I mean, life twists in so many unexpected ways that you could imagine. I might have been to hell and i might as well been to heaven. And now, all i need to do is keep counting the days on when am i gonna be happy and meet my another half officially, of course.

So for the next few months we will be start planning for our wedding and maybe bridezilla research ! I am not sure how much work and effort we have to put. and i am not sure if i can pull this event off. So much steps. And again, this is so "aww" moment. Anyhow, babies !! Did i just said babies? lol. yes, i did. Imagine how cute babies are. Another "aww" moment when you see a baby. A little baby lying on your hand, you are hugging him, playing with him, talking to him, although he might have not giving any respond, but his eyes, will keep rolling and looking at you as if he understood it. This what i call the "aww" moment.

Another "aww" moment is when you are hugging the baby, and the daddy came and hug you. Happy family. Warmth and sweet. Three members of the family share one bed, and both keep talking nonsense to the baby as if he will understood our language. And the more i write, the more i will start talking nonsense here. Why? lol.

  Yes, i am a "mommy", i am a mommy of this cute little one as he always said "your son your son", so i guess it all just happened naturally. Lol. Yes, i am going to get married soon, but not that soon enough like what i have mentioned earlier *laugh* Eventually one day, is only who and how long will it takes to reach that day that matters.lol

Anyhow, babies are seriously really CUTE ! This is an honest fact. lol~

Anyhow, enjoy the day everyone...

Good Guys vs Bad Guys

Please define GOOD guys and also BAD guys

How to judge a person just from his look? The answer will not be 100% accuracy but neither do representing 100% accurate. So this is why everybody was talking about dont judge one person from his outlook. One might look BAD from his outlook, fierce in his eyes or even his rude attidue, perhaps. But that doesnt make him a bad guy. Still, for me, a bad guy is someone that has done something illegal. Bank robbers or maybe whistle-blowing person. If is in the sexual relationship between man and women, how will you define a bad guy? I prefer to call playboy as BAD guys. 

There are quotations all over stating that women do prefer bad guys more than good guys. Bad guy tends to go more for the one night stand and the sexy chicks. Very stereotyping, i know, but we are living in the world ran by stereotypes. Truth. Then where the hell those statements came from? i dont know. But sometimes, we do stereotype playboy as handsome boy as well, dont we.

For me, something happened, and the reason must be everyone are equally responsible for it. I mean like, we cannot clap with only just one hand, right. So, why many women will fall for bad guys. For me, the answer is very simple. In some sense, bad guys are more tricky than good guys. Dont you agree on this? I posted this in facebook few days ago. Sometimes it's not that what are the chances of a guy take advantages of you, it's basically more to what they will do to make you willing to let them have the chances to take advantages. 

Days ago an unknown fellow keep calling. Technically was some friends of friend meet on my friend's wedding. And traditionally, they have to fetch us, which is bride's sisters, to bridegroom's house. So technically i dont even know his name or stay at where or came from where or none a single information i want to know also. In the end, leak of my contact number. I dont know how he managed to get it. The point is, even if he was really just purely wanted to be a friend, i also wont go out for a drink with them as well.

This makes me think of a lot of things. What is the point of going out with two totally stranger which just meet and chat during my friend's ceremony? Moreover, alone. I dont dare to do that. Even though they know any of my cousins, i also do not wish to go out with them. Yes, perhaps others will feel it's nothing, just went for a drink, moreover know who and who and so on. But sorry, will a wolf told you that he wants to eat you, way before you even dare to walk closer a step towards him? I am not pointing to anyone nor saying anyone equivalence to wolf or what. It's just so unreasonable for me to go out like that.

Yes, it is a public places. Yes, you can assure they wont take advantages from you. If i were a bad guy or a wolf, i wont simply just attack you on the spot. I will let you be friends with me first. Then i will let you slowly walk into my trap. This is what i mean bad guys are tricky. Just like what i have just said, sometimes is not that the chances of them taking advantages we are looking, are the chances of they letting you release your preparedness your wariness that induce the chances.

The very main point is still, i have my Bay my him. Cannot clap from just one side of the hand. I might be making a mistake from some peoples' perceptions by not just straight away cut the call and still slowly trying to reject nicely as i was worried of too much issues might happened if i did that. I am a purely coward. He able to get my number, what else he able to find out? My relatives, cousins. Moreover, he was friend of a friend. I just dont wish to make things even complicated. But i guess, my Bay saved my day. Grabbed the phone from me and ask what he want. After that some more answered that person's call and talk. I never see him so "man".lol. This is also considered as the very "aww" moment. *lol*

Anyhow, he never called and i was relief. I know my Bay will not like this to be happening. But who will ever know this will happen? Is not like i am the one who gave my number volunteerly. I dont even tell them my name. Anyway, case closed. Never thought my he will be so "man" in that moment. I just cannot believe that i used the word "man" over and over again on my Bay.lol. But i guess i still owe him a Thank you.

Anyway, what i was trying to say is, there are no definitions for bad guys. Bad guys could have just appear in many different ways, who knows? Not to say or pointing who are the bad guys good guys, but at least, we have to learn to be reasonable rational enough. Things are not as simple as we can see. It's not like you think it's fine then it will be fine forever. Dont be so simple.