Many years back i've written this in my Wretch blog
Sunset? or Sunrise?
And if you can see, it's very subjective.
Again, i took this as my tittle today. Why? I guess it is very randomly i've come across this old post.
Years back, in Wretch blog, i've asked readers to imagine a picture, seaside with a sun. Sort of like the one i attached above. So now the question is, this is a sunset? or a sunrise? I guess everybody's answer will be different, totally different. I can say that is arguable but even myself also dont have the answer. It's not wrong to say it is a sunset and neither do wrong to say it is a sunrise. So the point is, we all aren't wrong at all. It is matter of how we think of things surrounding us.
For sunset, many times we felt sad, upset by things, people around us. And yet we think properly, why are we upset? I know everyone will be answering " because he hurt me" or " because he did this, did that". But think properly, he is merely just doing things that you dont like. How about think it the other way around? The sunrise. Thinking of why he is doing this doing that, why you will feel hurt. Or in a simple way, put yourself in his shoes, then the conclusion might be different a lot. How a lot will it be? Take a couple as an example, if she insisted on thinking pessimistic-ly, arguments, quarrelling might following them. But if she willing to take an extra 1% effort to think optimistic-ly, things may be a way lot of differences. Another understandable phenomenon, 'is this glass half full or half empty?' situation.
Well i guess the biggest weakness of human being is the feeling, the emotional. Yes, it is easy to say that you wanted to be optimistic, but for all the time when human being faces sad, upset, hurt, heart break, etc all those unhappy, awful feeling, they lose. Yes, human being lose. They lose to themselves. For me, human beings facing a hard time to be rational, i mean fully rational, completely rational enough. Most of the time, human being are being controlled by their feeling, their emotional rather than their mind, their clear mind.
Well, what i can say is everytime is just how we look at things. Sometimes we might thought it wrongly and we did not know, like i said being controlled by own's feeling.
It's very subjective, no formulas, no tables, no rules, no guidelines for all these. It is still either sunset or sunrise. Still, it depends on how we think about it.
Years back, in Wretch blog, i've asked readers to imagine a picture, seaside with a sun. Sort of like the one i attached above. So now the question is, this is a sunset? or a sunrise? I guess everybody's answer will be different, totally different. I can say that is arguable but even myself also dont have the answer. It's not wrong to say it is a sunset and neither do wrong to say it is a sunrise. So the point is, we all aren't wrong at all. It is matter of how we think of things surrounding us.
For sunset, many times we felt sad, upset by things, people around us. And yet we think properly, why are we upset? I know everyone will be answering " because he hurt me" or " because he did this, did that". But think properly, he is merely just doing things that you dont like. How about think it the other way around? The sunrise. Thinking of why he is doing this doing that, why you will feel hurt. Or in a simple way, put yourself in his shoes, then the conclusion might be different a lot. How a lot will it be? Take a couple as an example, if she insisted on thinking pessimistic-ly, arguments, quarrelling might following them. But if she willing to take an extra 1% effort to think optimistic-ly, things may be a way lot of differences. Another understandable phenomenon, 'is this glass half full or half empty?' situation.
Well i guess the biggest weakness of human being is the feeling, the emotional. Yes, it is easy to say that you wanted to be optimistic, but for all the time when human being faces sad, upset, hurt, heart break, etc all those unhappy, awful feeling, they lose. Yes, human being lose. They lose to themselves. For me, human beings facing a hard time to be rational, i mean fully rational, completely rational enough. Most of the time, human being are being controlled by their feeling, their emotional rather than their mind, their clear mind.
Well, what i can say is everytime is just how we look at things. Sometimes we might thought it wrongly and we did not know, like i said being controlled by own's feeling.
It's very subjective, no formulas, no tables, no rules, no guidelines for all these. It is still either sunset or sunrise. Still, it depends on how we think about it.
Try to enjoy everyday happily everyone, especially my loves one, and those who i care the most.
Life's so short, we may not know what will happen next.
Well, just another random post.
Best Regards from me. ;-)
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