Found this :
Smart man + smart woman = romance
Smart man + dumb woman = affair
Dumb man = smart woman = marriage
Dumb man = dumb woman = pregnancy
Anything much to say? *lol*
How will you react when your husband or lover said :" you are way too smart for me."
So will that be a statement or prove of men really love dumb women only? I dont know, but in fact it's proven. It is the reality that men do prefer dumb women more than smart women. And i've also discovered a widely reported fact：women apparently value higher IQs in men more than men do in women.
Seriously, have you ever noticed that men seem more attracted to stupid girls? Think carefully and those cases that happens around you. You see them approaching the disty women with some oh-so-stupid pick-up line like, " If i told you, you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?" I guess most of the women usually want their perfect man to be smart and brainy, but the same cant be said in the opposite case. So i'm very curious of why smart men date dumb women? it's not that they dont have the qualification to have a better one. But still, why?
If i have to think it negatively or impolitely, i might say that the reason these girls get hit on is not necessarily because they are drop-dead gorgeous. It is because they have a distinct deer-in-headlights look in their eyes that tells the men that they are approachable, coach-able and stupid enough to fall for their lame pick-up lines, go home with them and allow the man to do all the talking and make all the rules. You see, these men actually prefer stupid girls over smart girls because they get to hold all the cards in the relationship and they can get away with a lot more shit because their stupid girlfriend or wife or whatever will be none the wiser to his bull-shit. Sorry for perceived it this way , but really there are some kind of men like to date dumb girls because of they are easily to tell lies. Sorry for the impolite thinking but still there are the possibilities of this reason.
But anyway, dating a less successful woman isn't about wanting her to be dumb. I guess men still wishes their partner is smart and some way. But in the other way around, men still wanting someone who prioritizes their life in a way that's compatible with how she prioritize hers. I guess in short it means that men wanted a woman who treated him as the whole of her life. But i guess nobody wants a partner who carefree or even only care of her own life. Even men sometimes still wanting someone to pamper him. To make him feel comfortable, to make him the dominant.
Does it means smart women will never ever get into a relationship? Does it means that smart women will be left outside cold? I don't know.
Actually if men thinks carefully, Yes, a smart girl takes work, initiative, cooperation and above all, takes courage to handle. And smart girls are not for whimpering cowards or men who are used to getting things handed to them a silver platter. But in the end, smart girls will add more to the relationship and to the intellectual and emotional growth of their partner than any stupid girl ever could ! If a man wants a servant, a lap-dog, a trophy-wife, then by all means : men, pick up a stupid girl at a bar near you. But if you want a soul-mate, a goddess, a teacher and a partner, then for God's sake, have the initiative to pick a smart girl !!
Like i always said, a relationship is always about two-way streets. It's about you and me. There wont be perfect if without a you or without a me. So men, pick a smart girl who will sometimes have the initiative and ability to help you when you needed, to guide you when you are lost, someone to share with vexations but not those who just know how to be in a relationship with you rather than know how to maintain the relationship in good shape. Not a relationship that similarly to boss-subordinate relationship. So coercive.
Stupid girls will let you do anything you like as long as you are still with her ; smart girls will sometimes take the initiative to tell you what is right or wrong as they hope the best out of you. Is this the difference? But in the other way, keep quiet and letting her partner do whatever he like as long as he still will be coming back home is called "a wise woman". So should we said this is a dumb girl? or is just a smart girl that acted dumb?
Smart girls do acted dumb sometimes.
Being a man, I can say that it is true. I really appreciate a dumb woman, but that's a glib way of putting it. If a woman is "intelligent," that doesn't usually mean to me that she has a college degree and loves to read, it usually means she wants to argue, be skeptical and critical about my behavior, and take on more responsibilities.
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